23/05/2026
CHAPTER 3:
Gold Coast. Byron. Sydney.
The beginning of my third chapter at the time.
In 2018, I created a small collection of coats under a brand called Chapter 3: a project that never really got to see the light of day.
After months spent building it, the very night the website launched, I was betrayed in a way that shattered my sense of self and reality. Everything in my life was intertwined with that relationship — emotionally, creatively, publicly. Codependent, even.
I had poured the last of my savings into that chapter, trying to build a life, a future and a new business alongside someone I loved. When it all fell apart, I couldn’t separate the coats from the memories or the pain.
So I packed it all away.
At the time, I was too embarrassed to explain why I walked away from the life I had just started building in Sydney, left fashion behind, switched industries and built an entirely new career in hospitality.
Funny how the mind works. Sometimes it protects us from certain chapters until we’re finally ready to revisit them.
I almost forgot about it, or tried to at least, until this week. While clearing out my storage unit, I found a box with feathers sticking out of it and it all came flooding back.
Looking at these coats now, I realised I’m tired of abandoning parts of myself every time someone hurts me. Tired of believing I have to leave entire versions of myself behind just to move forward.
These coats are still mine.
So is the vision.
So is the woman who created them.
They’re ostentatiously fabulous.
And for a long time, I stopped feeling allowed to be that too.
But we’re back. Maybe even more fabulous now than before. Me and the coats.
These pieces survived boxed up in storage, pushed to the back of my mind for years.
And now I’m very literally unpacking it all again — the coats, the memories, the grief, the creativity, the love and the magic of that chapter — and finally giving these pieces the limelight they always deserved.
When I say fashion is more than clothing to me, this is what I mean.
The Chapter 3 archive is now online at JOYHYSTERIC.com — a living archive of my life’s work, loves and losses.
Style doesn’t disappear.
It evolves.