06/20/2026
Twenty-two years of marriage. More than three decades of us.
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about how quickly life moves. Maybe it’s losing Dad. Maybe it’s watching both of our girls prepare to step into lives of their own.
The moments that once felt so normal are now the ones I cherish most. School drop-offs. Family dinners. Late-night talks after the kids were asleep. Trips. Coffee runs. Celebrations. Heartbreaks. The beautiful, messy collection of moments that became our life.
Looking back, we’ve been incredibly fortunate. Our life together has been full, joyful, and rich in all the ways that truly matter.
As our girls get ready to follow their own paths, this chapter feels especially tender. The house is changing. Our roles are changing. And while I’m still learning how to hold on and let go at the same time, DH is already dreaming about what comes next, adjusting how he works and imagining the years ahead.
And truthfully, I am too.
More trips. More wandering without an agenda. More afternoons spent discovering a neighbourhood we’ve never explored. More coffee shops where one cup somehow turns into three hours. More conversations. More curiosity. More collecting memories instead of things.
My dear DH, after all this time, you’re still my favourite person to share a table, a coffee, a flight, and a life with.
These wedding studio photos were taken in Taiwan a few months before we got married, Dec 2003.
Looking at them now, I can’t help but smile at those two young people, so focused on the future and all the milestones ahead.
Standing here all these years later, I realize the dream was never a destination. It was all of it. The big trips and big celebrations. The ordinary Tuesdays. The packed lunches. The family vacations. The laughter around the dinner table. The people we loved. The life we built, one day at a time.
Because one day, those ordinary days become the ones you miss the most.
❤️ 22 years married. 30 years together. Still my favourite adventure.