29/05/2026
I’ve been experimenting with unstructured time.
No plans to fill time, just being open to whatever the day brings. In my experimentation I’ve learnt that no structure at all invites chaos and that some adulting is necessary for safety, deservingness and survival. But other than structures to meet our fundamental needs nothing else really needs a plan.
Living to time restraints causes stress, so why do we add these time stamps to our days ?
To avoid the discomfort of having no plans ? Why ? Because there’ll be space, space to feel what lies beneath the busyness. That which is avoid doesn’t go away on its own, it stays with us until it feel safe enough to be witnesses, revealed and healed.
So we can busy all we like but that baseline of anxiety & sadness is which visits us in these quiet times will always come knocking, until the door is opened.
So, I’ve been taking time to open the doors to the parts of me that are uncomfortable to feel, and little by little, tear by tear, those quiet moments don’t feel scary anymore. Infact there are moments of nothingness in the silence, peace, gratitude and love are filling the spaces of what’s been released.
So, stop rushing my love.
There is nowhere to rush to anyway 🫶🏻
The past is in the past and can’t be changed but we can grow and learn from our experiences.
The future is yet to be experienced.
Be present in this now moment, the only moment that is real.
Jen x