11/03/2022
8 major Mistakes with Dating Profile photos severely reducing your appeal
..at least if you want to meet your longterm love and are fed up of game playing, needy, untrustworthy, own body hating or uncommitted potential dates!
1️⃣ Be too cool in your car with the darkest shades ever
Bad boy = fun but untrustworthy.
2️⃣ Take a selfie in your/hotel bedroom mirror AND only look at your phone
Attract those women who love themselves too.
3️⃣ I haven't lived since we brokeup so I'll just paint or crop her out
You may look beach ready, holiday relaxed but your asking for baggage
4️⃣The so mysterious I don't exist
Perhaps funny for that one last photo to show your personility but you get what you reflect - show hiding and get a hider - or someone not comfortable in their own skin.
5️⃣The bathroom selfie because i'm dressed up and don't have anyone to take a photo for me photo
Bathrooms just put grotty rank thoughts and feelings in peoples minds. Most people don't want a partner obsessed with the toilet... So don't conjur the subconcious ewwww. Oh and BAD lighting. Your best wont stand that test!
6️⃣ The robbed my friends dog to gain attention (awwww isn't it cute - your amazing)
Only rob a dog you spend alot of time with - would you trust a person who isn't who they say they are? So why will they trust you past date 2?
Disconnect between profiles and reality give subtle signals that undermine your chances - you never even know!
7️⃣ Make your main profile picture that cute baby photo
Immediate statement of hiding the way you really look because you either think I don't like me or you won't like my appearance...
8️⃣ The take a blurry artsy photo on purpose picture
While it may be a clever if you actually are artistic and this is photo #4 all it says is you don't want to see me because I don't either.
Have you been making any of these mistakes and expecting a trustworthy, healthy, healed, happy long term love of your life to show up and give you a chance?
