15/06/2025
I recently learned I had become the subject of some rather uninspired gossip. Hardly a novelty — we’ve all been on someone’s tongue at some point. But this time, I chose to embrace it as an opportunity for growth rather than an insult.
I realised these individuals — whom I genuinely liked — are simply not my people. I always extend the benefit of the doubt, and I always open the door sincerely. They were the ones who chose to trample it.
My openness is not weakness. It is a testament of courage — a deliberate decision to stay soft-hearted in a world that rewards duplicity. If someone chooses to betray that, the disgrace is theirs to wear.
Some people find meaning only by diminishing others — clinging to shallow connections and feeding on rumour because their own sense of self is too fragile to stand alone. That is their burden to carry; it has nothing to do with me.
I would rather stand alone in truth than surround myself with people who trade kindness for gossip and loyalty for cheap validation. If the cost of honesty is discovering who never deserved my time, then I consider it a bargain.
Their actions speak more eloquently than I ever could. If someone rejects the sincerity I bring, I lose nothing — I simply reclaim my energy for those who can appreciate it.
I feel no hatred towards them. If anything, I feel pity — especially for one in particular, who seems perpetually baffled by the misfortunes life keeps delivering, never pausing to wonder how venom breeds venom. It really is the simplest arithmetic.
If your moral compass is so corroded that you derive pleasure from distorting others’ stories and twisting reality, you should not be surprised when the Universe returns the favour in kind.
As for me: every betrayal is a gift. This one cost me nothing yet reminded me precisely who I am and how valuable my trust is.
It requires true strength to know you are enough exactly as you are.
So let them whisper — it changes nothing. My life will remain too vast, too honest, and too rarefied for their idle tongues to ever reach.
Pearls were never meant to rest in the mud — and I was never meant to linger among swine.
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