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22/05/2026

I used to think I knew who I was. #

I walked to the vet with Olli this morning.
Vaccination day. A yearly ritual.

On the way home we stopped by the cafe.
He had cold water. I had tea.
I sat under a big tree and I thought about life.
(I think more deeper about life recently 🥰)

About a woman who supported me, whose story moved me deeply.
About friends who have become family.
About how grateful I am to be surrounded by people who are kind, generous, and real.

And then I thought about something else.

Identity.

For so long I thought identity came from work.
From a title. A role. A function.
Something I could point to and say,
“That is who I am.”

But sitting under that tree today I understood something differently.

Identity doesn’t come from what you do.
It comes from how you love.
How you show up.
How deeply you are willing to know yourself.

I am 50+.
I am still searching.
I am still learning.
And I am more myself today than I have ever been.

I don’t have everything figured out.
But I am moving forward.
I am happy.
And I am ready.

If you are in this season too,
still searching, still becoming, still open,
you are not behind.

You are exactly where depth begins.

So tell me, what is your question this week? 🌿


slowliving

19/05/2026

We give and we give.

Without asking how we really feel.

Without noticing what it costs us.

We wait for others to stop us.

We rarely stop ourselves.

And somewhere along the way,
we forget that our own happiness
is also our responsibility.

Not selfishness.

Not bitterness.

Just the quiet truth that
you cannot keep pouring
from an empty place.

I know I am not the only one who has felt this.

Where in your life have you been giving too much,
and quietly waiting for someone to notice?

Even one word in the comments is enough.

This is a safe place.

And I am genuinely listening. 🌿

This is from journal this morning, if you want to have complete writing, please let me know.

10/05/2026

With Gratitude:

To the mothers separated from their children by distance, circumstance, or decisions that were not always theirs to make, whose arms ache with a longing that has no easy name, your love still reaches them, even across the silence.

To the women who mothered without the title,
the aunts, godmothers, neighbors, sisters, friends, and quiet safe places, the world is warmer because of you.

May every one of you be held gently today.

May your body feel safe.
May your mind find rest.
May your spirit feel soft again.

And may you feel, in whatever way life knows how to show you, that your love, in every form it took,
was never wasted.

You are enough.
You always were. ❤️

08/05/2026

For women who feel this but can’t name it.

This morning I meditated, then felt like biking instead of spinning class.

So I followed that feeling.

I pedaled to a little village on the Ijssel river.

Sat alone. Wind in my hair. Cold shiver on my skin.

And I realised, quiet alone is not the same as lonely.

I have a husband waiting for me at home.
Children who cheer my life.
Friends I can cry and laugh with.

I am content. Not because everything is perfect.

But because I finally stopped waiting for perfect to feel grateful.

Now it is my time. Something more. Something for myself.

If you are in this season too you are not alone.

Let’s make the world peace and connected.

Community cooking day.We didn’t just make food, we helped create a space that felt safe, warm, and welcoming.It’s my tur...
20/04/2026

Community cooking day.

We didn’t just make food, we helped create a space that felt safe, warm, and welcoming.

It’s my turn to give.

That is what I love most about hospitality.

15/04/2026

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