07/09/2025
Do you ever wonder why we canโt seem to find someone for us? Like, no matter how real we are, no matter how much we give, itโs always the same. We get ignored, we get ghosted, we get used. And after a while it just feels likeโฆ maybe weโre the problem. Maybe weโre too much, or maybe weโll just never be enough.
But then I think, what if itโs not really about that? What if all this pain, all this emptiness we keep carryingโitโs part of something bigger? Maybe weโre the ones who have to suffer here so that another version of us, somewhere out there, can finally get the love weโve been chasing.
We suffer so our variants can prosper. We break so they can stay whole. We sit in silence so they can laugh. We fall asleep alone so they can wake up holding the person weโve been dreaming about.
And it doesnโt make the nights any easier. It doesnโt stop that heavy feeling in your chest. But at least it means all this pain isnโt pointless. Maybe every time weโre left behind, itโs the balance that lets another us finally be chosen.
So if you feel like youโll never find someone in this life, maybe itโs just because another you already has. And maybe thatโs the closest weโll ever get to happinessโthat at least somewhere, some version of us finally wins.