Zaren Saragan

28/04/2026

😋😋

28/04/2026

Some people don’t apologize to fix what they did.

They apologize to get access back.

Access to you.
Your time.
Your energy.

That’s not accountability.
That’s MANIPULATION.

In psychology, this is INSTRUMENTAL APOLOGY
saying sorry as a tool, not as remorse.

Real apologies come with CHANGE.
If the behavior stays the same,
the apology was just a strategy.

👉 If this felt familiar,
send it to someone who needs this clarity.

27/04/2026

I wish you heal
from things
you never deserved
to carry.

The pain
that was handed to you.

The blame
that was never yours.

The heavy things
you learned to hold
just to keep going.

I hope one day
you set them down
and remember,

some burdens
were never meant
to be yours.

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25/04/2026

I used to take the blame
and disappear.

Even for things
that were never mine.

I would apologize,
go quiet,
make myself smaller
just to keep the peace.

I thought losing myself
was easier
than losing people.

Now I know

some disappearances
happen long before
we actually leave.

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21/04/2026

and suddenly

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20/04/2026

Suddenly I woke up
and didn’t want
to be an almost anymore,

so I left.

I got tired
of living in maybes.
Of being loved
only when it was convenient.

I wanted something certain.

Something that stayed
without being asked to.

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18/04/2026

Things will get better,
even if it takes time.

not all at once,

not in the way you expect,

but slowly,

in ways you almost miss.

one day,
you’ll notice
it doesn’t hurt the same.

and that’s how it begins.

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