04/16/2026
Hey, if you’re new here, I’m Tara. I love humans, romance, and making people feel seen.
I recently had to make the decision not to move forward with a soon-to-be client. We were all set, and I was about to send over a contract when I received a text from her that was meant for someone else, but it was about me.
It said, “Her hair is not bright red like in the photo on her website. She is lovely. I think she has lost a lot of weight since her website photo was taken. I really like her personality.”
I don’t believe this came from a place of harm. In fact, I think it was meant as a compliment in its own way. But she also mentioned not wanting her daughter to feel like she was hiring someone who would stand out too much on her wedding day.
I’m not sharing this to shame anyone. I’m sharing it because it gave me a really clear moment of reflection on who I am and why I do what I do.
I’ve struggled with body image since I was about 10 years old. For most of my life, I’ve looked in the mirror and picked myself apart, like so many people do. When I started getting into portrait photography, that’s when the fire for making people feel seen and beautiful really started to burn inside me.
So last year, when I built a real brand around my work, I knew I wanted it to be rooted in authenticity. I wanted to show up as I am, and create a space where people, no matter their background, sexuality, size, or ethnicity, could feel safe doing the same.
Because of that, I’ve learned to pay attention to what aligns and what doesn’t. And in this situation, it just didn’t feel aligned with the kind of experience I want to create.
And the truth is, I’m not here to blend in. I’m here for the people who want to feel something when they look back at their photos. The ones who don’t mind a little personality, a little presence, a little realness behind the camera. If that’s not what someone is looking for, that’s okay. But I’ve built this space on honesty, connection, and showing up as myself, and I’m not willing to shrink that to fit into someone else’s version of what I should be.
Warmth and light,
Tara Leigh Photography