04/08/2025
Last week I lead a virtual networking event and talked about how so many of my women clients were taking their businesses to the next level. How I had expanded my business as well, and that I was so grateful to be surrounded by people who were really stepping up.
As we all shared over the hour, one of the younger ladies talked through her tears about how stuck she felt in her life. She was really unhappy at her job, wasn't being utilized for her gifts, they weren't honoring her contract benefits, she was completely frustrated, but made a lot of money - and felt frozen. I shared with her a teaching I'd heard 30 years earlier about muddy water. That left standing, it eventually becomes clear. Having grown up on a farm and seeing how muddy the pond got after a big rain - red mud to be exact - it was easy for me to hold that vision and I utilize it to this day. And I reflected on how in my mid 30's I was in the same place. Different circumstances but at a major crossroad with no idea how to take the next step. This line from my song "Lookin' On The Outside" from my IN THE MOMENT cd sums it up - "Muddy water, I can't see through. Can't see my way past you. I' been lookin' for somethin' familiar, so I can take a step away. But that would lead me right back, to the place I am today". https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sandra-julian/66628661
In my case, I had to step away from my life completely to begin to get clarity. A mentor also appeared who invited me to a group retreat she was holding and over time, the work completely changed my life. It was a process of beginning to peel away what I knew, which is where I was - and opening - with support - into the unknown. The next step. This is why I've expanded my work to offer retreats. For exactly this place. I've lived it. It's time for the next step, but there is no clarity. I would not be where I am today in my life had I not done this work.
Join me in the great smokey mountains of North Carolina in September for "Embrace Your Next Chapter", a clarity break for your next step. I'll have a beautiful team of women with me to support you including Michele Rae. See PDF on my site below for the Agenda.
https://www.sandrajulian.com/retreats