07/22/2026
We need to start talking more about ableism.
Any time you think "they look fine" you are being ableist. "They don't really need that mobility aid" ableist. "She was fine yesterday" ableist.
None of us want to be sick we just are. Regardless of "LOOKING" sick I am sick every single day and I have been for more than half of my life. I might look fine but feel like trash and it NEVER ENDS!
We have good days and bad. For me some days I don't even need my cane while others I need a wheelchair. Needing different mobility aids doesn't change that my illness takes its toll every day with every interaction and choice I make.
So before you judge us by how we look, what we did yesterday, or what devices we need to function I need you to remember that there is only one minority that everyone will become part of if they live long enough... And it can happen tomorrow... Next Tuesday... Any day it's possible you will become disabled. Think with kindness and understanding not disgust and contempt we get enough of that every time we step out our front doors.