Slow To Connect

Slow To Connect When I retired from the U.S. Air Force in 2018 I found myself thinking long and hard about how I could continue to serve my nation and community.

I’m still thinking about it. I enjoy writing and photography. Slow To Connect is where I’ll combine those

🎉 Happy Birthday to Seat 3B! 🎉 Join us as we celebrate a memorable journey filled with new connections and beautiful sto...
02/05/2025

🎉 Happy Birthday to Seat 3B! 🎉 Join us as we celebrate a memorable journey filled with new connections and beautiful stories. What has been your most unforgettable moment on a plane? Share in the comments! Check out the full story: https://wix.to/u8PH9Pk

I felt a light tap on my shoulder as I sensed someone approaching from behind. "Good evening Mr. Lanier. You are Christopher Lanier right?""Yes, that's me.""Well we know it's a special day for you...actually, we're a little early, but we wanted to wish you a happy birthday and give you a small gift!...

04/25/2024

Thinking about going hybrid, plug-in hybrid, or fully electric? I wasn't planning on it, but here I sit with three in our family stable. I've put a few of my thoughts down in case you are considering adding one to your garage. Spoiler alert -- I'm a fan of plug-in hybrids but have some reservations about fully electric as your only option.

Wow, I've had this drafted for almost 2 years. 🙂 Guess it's about time to share my unflossed shame with the world.  Sorr...
03/22/2022

Wow, I've had this drafted for almost 2 years. 🙂 Guess it's about time to share my unflossed shame with the world.
Sorry for being such a consistent disappointment with the flossing Nancy Lambert! You did what you could. 🙂
Never a better time than now to work on the habits you want!

So here's an embarrassing confession. I haven't flossed my entire life. I guess that's not technically accurate. I don't mean I've never flossed, but If you divided my life into two periods on either side of Dec 30, 2019, the number of times I flossed on either side of that divide might be disappoin...

"Discovering the value in an analog mindset is something that's grown from my experience with film photography. Carpente...
03/22/2022

"Discovering the value in an analog mindset is something that's grown from my experience with film photography. Carpenters share a similar approach: measure twice and cut once unless you want to buy a lot more wood. Deliberate planning and thinking is sometimes less gratifying than just letting it rip, but the rewards and gained efficiency accrues with time."

It's been a long time since I shared my thoughts consistently; too long. A few years ago I started sharing images and writing with no particular direction. If fit a larger pattern of searching that many people experience when military service is over. For twenty-two years with a flag clinging to my....

Exciting opportunity to help hook up homeless vets with donated RVs! Couldn’t be happier to help with this program. Over...
01/25/2020

Exciting opportunity to help hook up homeless vets with donated RVs! Couldn’t be happier to help with this program. Over a year ago I was looking for a way to contribute in my local community. These days I’m starting to plan my time so I can squeeze it all in!

Pic of the Week. It's from Montana de Oro a couple of weeks ago. I like this photo because the figures in the distance s...
01/22/2020

Pic of the Week. It's from Montana de Oro a couple of weeks ago. I like this photo because the figures in the distance seem to be having a casual conversation while massive waves break in close proximity. Sometimes our lives are like that. We exist on a relatively calm peninsula, oblivious to how close we are to the power and destructive forces that could carry us out to sea in a moment; sure footing traded for panic and tunnel vision. Be aware, not all are on safe ground. Look for a chance to throw a life ring to those in deep waters. An unexpected wave could strike at any time.

Volunteering has taken on much more significance for me since I retired. But I realized I wasn’t going about it delibera...
01/04/2020

Volunteering has taken on much more significance for me since I retired. But I realized I wasn’t going about it deliberately. It was fulfilling, but seemed to be an inconvenience because I failed to plan. I think I could have been much more effective if I’d utilized the same goal setting I used in my military career. So I’m trying that this year...specific goals and timeframes for the activities I’m committing to. They’ll get a better volunteer and I’ll get more fulfillment. Broader goals will be supplemented with specific action items and timelines. It’s the basic building blocks that most achievements are built upon. If you haven’t considered doing something similar I challenge you to give it a try! You don’t have to doodle though...it’s just something I enjoy. It draws me into the planning process. Find something that draws you in and get to planning!

"In every walk with nature, one receives far more than he seeks." - John Muir
01/03/2020

"In every walk with nature, one receives far more than he seeks." - John Muir

Many people were out enjoying the start to the new year at the coast. Consider time spent here and other beautiful outdo...
01/02/2020

Many people were out enjoying the start to the new year at the coast. Consider time spent here and other beautiful outdoor spaces an investment in your soul. Do it!

I’ve always struggled with discipline. For every action oriented cell in my body, there is an equally stubborn lazy cell...
01/01/2020

I’ve always struggled with discipline. For every action oriented cell in my body, there is an equally stubborn lazy cell. In those periods of my life where action has carried the day, I’ve had my greatest accomplishments. When my discipline falters, the opposite is true. Great ideas exist in my head like caged animals at the zoo, never realizing their full potential. One of the many gifts the military offered was tangible goals and milestones. Whether it was an annual fitness test or a promotion board coming up, the goals and milestones required to succeed were clear. It’s taken me longer to get my footing in my new situation. But what was true then remains the same: discipline is the key. As creative endeavors and volunteering have taken on greater meaning for me, I realized that I hadn’t written down my goals and did the planning required to get where I want to be. The same is true of fitness. Without a set date for evaluation I’ve drifted from what was a tenuous perch “near” good weight and health habits. Honestly, I’ve never had good food discipline — it was just masked by consistent running. So let me encourage you not to just make resolutions, but set goals and come up with a plan to to achieve them. It’s something I used to coach folks on but somehow forgot to do for myself when I left the military. Time to get back to it. I’m a happier and more productive person when I do. For me, discipline translates to achievement and fulfillment. And if you fail to meet some of those new goals, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get after it again next year. You only lose when you quit trying. Wishing you a great 2020!

Got a new camera for Christmas.🙌🏼 This isn’t from that camera...but I’ll have some of those images once a week hopefully...
12/30/2019

Got a new camera for Christmas.🙌🏼 This isn’t from that camera...but I’ll have some of those images once a week hopefully. That’s one of my many resolutions. It might feel cliche to make resolutions, but it’s the only chance you stand of improving....working to be a better version of yourself by taking steps toward specific goals. It starts with acknowledging what you want to do better. So here’s to 52 images I’m going to create and share with you.

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