12/12/2025
The elopement world has changed so much since 2020, and part of me grew afraid that all these shifts might change the way I approach storytelling someone’s wedding day
It was once a down low experience where people can break away from traditions, feel the courage inside their hearts to go after what they truly feel strongly about, let go of all the societal pressure, and arrive at the level of honesty they feel in their bones.
Their truth,
Their love,
Their story,
….all stripped down to its most honest shape
And slowly, somehow, it felt more and more like a glorified photoshoot.
I stopped sharing work at a certain locations because it didn’t feel right to have a couple waiting in line…in nature…for photos.
Then I found a page in my journal “Just because you understand a piece of thing doesn’t mean you understand the entirety of it”
And it hit me.
Just because I am an elopement photographer doesn’t mean I know everything about elopements.
People have the choice to elope however way they want.
The only thing I can fully control is how I show up, how I approach elopements, and how I honor their story, their intention, their. day.
For P and C, knowing their family couldn’t be there, although they desperately wanted them to, I wanted to focus on the experience and photos they could take home and show their parents
…to show how beautiful Tofino was on a cold September day, where the fog wrapped around the cliffs but never fully hid the sun
…to show how they ran on the shoreline, tasted the silty mist on their tongues, and laughed like they were the only two people in the world
…to show how quiet the forest became as they walked together…almost like the world softened a bit just enough to make space for them.
…to show how they held onto each other, not for a photo, but just because the moment moved them.
Because someday, when their parents flip through these photos, I hope they don’t just see what Tofino looked like.
I hope they feel what their children felt…and that is more than I could ever hope for being a wedding photographer
Thank you P and C for trusting me with your day
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