21/07/2026
To Men👑👑👑
Dear Man,
Oftentimes men are measured by performance, that is how useful he is and how much expectations(even unrealistic expectations) they're supposed to meet. For the right reason, a man must be productive.
Without realising it, the world has built such a brutal standard for a man such that when he fails to meet the set standard that defines him as a man according to certain interested parties, he has failed. And after being considered a failure, the world quickly forgets him like he never existed. That world my dear man has been built by certain women who have such a high demand and expectancy that is very unrealistic. I know they will not like this.
But here is what i want you to know;
●You haven't failed, you can only provide for people what is within your power.
I want you to know that you're seen and it's not your fault that certain women have built a very unrealistic expectation of you as a man, it's on them not you if they don't get what they want.
●Yes, you will have to provide, you will have to meet certain realistic expectation that are manly because you need to be responsible but those that seem like you're buying attention, love, nurturing, respect, approval from her, set yourself free. You're not the problem.
●You're enough, she is the one discontent. Smile a bit more, work hard, speak a prayer everyday. Don't commit su***de because you were told, you're not a man, don't give up because you were made to feel like you're not enough. Truth is, you have been doing so well. Just push more, you will soon become the man you always wanted to be.
You too, was born to be loved
You too, was born to be seen
You too was born to receive warmth and care.
You deserve to be respected.
There's no point you need to prove, there's no standard set by someone who cannot even do half of what they claim they deserve for themselves that you need to meet in exchange of temporal love, temporal respect. Don't be angry, don't be too hard on yourself, believe me, out there, their's still that woman who will treat you right. You will find her, may God guide you.
Always remember a man who controls his appetite for women and employs discipline, such a man becomes untouchable. Build alot of self control, respect women. Keep the belt tight on your trousers, temporal pleasures have never built anything. So much good will come out of you.
Soar high.
