17/03/2026
I believe, as photographers, we have women who want to be seen but don’t like what they see.
And it is our job to document them in a way that feels right for them, not us.
You can capture their hands holding, their arms and legs tangled, a tight crop, or even from behind.
Look for the love without the face.
It's always there.
It is our job to amplify it.
Of course, include the beautiful smiles and laughing portraits.
But if you feel her freeze, then remember the details.
She deserves to be seen. Be gentle with her.
My daughter took this as we walked around Yanaka, Tokyo. I had the camera in my hands, and she said, "Let me take a photo of you.”
I handed over the camera willingly.
I love what see saw. She amplified my love.
Cinders ###