09/06/2026
I arrived at St. George's Church in Langley about ten minutes late. I want to be transparent about why. There is a Costco on the way and I needed a glizzy. It's a busy Costco. Also traffic. These are my reasons and I stand behind all of them equally.
I walked through the doors with hot dog in hand trying to slip in quietly, which immediately failed because Scarlett — who I had never met in person — looked right at me and said "Hello Eric!" with complete confidence. I had been in the building for approximately four seconds and was still holding a Costco hot dog.
"You recognized me right away," I said.
She had. I introduced myself to the assembled family. "I'll be bossing you around tomorrow, but I'll try to be really cool about it." They laughed. I'll be honest, some of those laughs were pity laughs. I take the pity laugh. A laugh is a laugh and I'm not in a position to be selective about the source.
The next morning started at Riley's dad's place. Within sixty seconds of my arrival he said, with genuine excitement: "You should take a photo in front of the banana tree in the back."
"I'll bite."
He ushered me through a massive four-level house sitting on what was essentially a sixty degree incline of a road, which somehow still had a beautiful backyard at the bottom of it. The banana tree was there. So was a hydrangea, which is where my eye went immediately — specifically, a lacecap hydrangea sitting in a little pool of light filtering through the trees. I found the exact flower the light was hitting. Set the ring on it for maximum dramatic effect. The light cooperated completely. Greg, drinking a b**r shirtless behind me, voiced his approval. Under his meticulous supervision, I knew it was amazing. You need that. You need a shirtless guy with a b**r telling you the ring shot is working. It grounds you.
Inside, the debate about the correct way to fold a pocket square was ongoing. I was not asked to weigh in, which was wise.
Then I was introduced to Jenny, who was excitedly talking to me while I was building a flat lay. She noticed my cat socks, approved of them, and then issued what I can only describe as a formal warning about the general operating temperature of this family. I believed her instantly. She told me how Riley's parents had woken him up on his wedding morning. I still believe her. Details withheld but fully consistent with the warning.
Quick portrait of Riley, then off to the bride's house.
Scarlett's mother immediately tried to feed me, which I respect enormously as a life philosophy. I rearranged the living room, then went outside to set up the dress shot. There was an apple tree in the yard — full of actual apples, heavy with them — and the dress hung underneath it like it had always belonged there. It didn't need any help. I left it exactly where it was.
As I was arranging the jewelry for a flat lay, Riley's niece walked up to me.
"Look, you can make a smiley face!"
Say no more. That's in the gallery now.
I got to chatting with Scarlett's father, whose name is also Eric, which I appreciated as a choice. He was telling me about his own wedding day with this nostalgic look on his face, describing the whole morning. And then his daughter walked up behind him in her wedding dress. He turned around. The rest of that sentence doesn't need finishing. I cannot fully explain what happened to his face in that moment except to say it was one of the most purely emotional things I've witnessed at a wedding, and I have witnessed a considerable number of weddings.
Later, after Scarlett had gone back inside, I looked out through the window. Her parents were still in the garden among the flowers. He had his arms around his wife. You could still see the tears on his face. They were just holding each other in the quiet of the morning, not saying anything. If I had to guess, based on our conversation, he was back on his own wedding day for a moment — standing where he stood, feeling what he felt — and she was right there with him. With that smile. I left them to it.
I loaded Scarlett into my car — which is a sentence I never get tired of saying because it is objectively funny — and we made our way to the first look at Princess and the Pea Bed and Breakfast. Bright porch, vines up both sides. One instruction before we started: no video. Just photos. I could see exactly why within thirty seconds. It was a lot of happy crying while they read their vows to each other, private and unhurried, the kind of moment that belongs only to them.
Then we recreated a photo. Two generations of this family, kids leaning on cars — 50mm at 2.8, and I knew by looking at the back of the camera immediately. That one's a keeper. In three hundred years someone will ask about the origins of this tradition. I hope the historians find this post. I am prepared to be a primary source.
Botanical gardens next. High noon in Langley in summer falls at 4pm, which meant the 1pm light was coming in at an angle that was doing serious work. We ran all over that garden and I pulled out the prism for some shots that turned out exactly as fun as I was hoping. I had woken up that morning with a delusional amount of self-confidence, as I often do, and I will ride that high. I will ride it all the way home.
The church filled up for 3pm. Riley's mom walked him up the aisle and I have genuinely never seen anyone smiling that big — the kind of smile that takes over a person's entire face without asking. Then Riley saw Scarlett coming up the aisle and the smile went somewhere more complicated and more beautiful. The stained glass was throwing light in every direction and her father was beside her wearing an expression I recognized from the garden that morning.
Mid-shot, I noticed Jenny's shoes. Custom Fluevogs. She had clearly been waiting for someone to notice because the moment I looked she pointed at them immediately and with considerable authority. I took the picture. Then the ring. I zoomed in for a closeup. Then felt a hand at my back.
My shirt was untucked.
Thanks Jenny.
The officiant was sharp and funny and when she mimed — physically acted out, with commitment — how ridiculous a person looks holding a phone up during a wedding ceremony, the room laughed in the specific way people laugh when something is funny and also extremely accurate. Brilliant. The ceremony was beautiful and when she announced them at the end her voice filled that entire church and everyone completely lost it.
We poured outside for a group shot I wanted to feel like 1960 in front of a church, and it did. I balanced myself on a chair I had borrowed from inside — borrowed, not stolen, I returned it, I'm not an animal — got the angle I needed, climbed back down, returned the chair, said nothing. Then to the old hall, a building full of the kind of character that newer venues spend a lot of money trying to fake and never quite get there.
After the meal I grabbed the two of them for the sneak away. I had scouted specifically the day before for the one spot in downtown Langley where the mountains are visible. Found it. Right in front of the Fraser River — lakes, peaks, sky stacked up behind them like a backdrop that cost someone a significant amount of money. We got everything out of that location and came back to speeches and dancing with the quiet satisfaction of people who know they got the shot.
All day, I kept seeing Sydney Klassen in motion. She's the coordinator, and what she sustained over eighteen hours — keeping me fed, ferrying desserts up and down stairs, managing everything simultaneously with a smile on her face — was genuinely extraordinary. The amount of energy that woman runs on is not fully explained by any known food or sleep science.
Then the late night situation revealed itself outside: Hot Dog Hill. An actual hot dog stand serving items with names like the Jalapeño Cheddar Homewrecker. I respect this deeply and without reservation.
And there, standing proudly beside the hot dog stand, was Scarlett's father. Eric. He had commissioned — and personally erected — a full body sized blowup of the bride and groom eating a hot dog. Life sized. Outdoors. Right next to the actual hot dog stand. He stood beside it with the energy of a man who has executed his vision exactly as planned and will be accepting compliments for the remainder of the evening.
That's where I'll leave it.
A father. Proud of his kids. Proud of their taste in hot dogs. Shirt tucked in and quite visible, unlike some people.
Scarlett and Riley — you are surrounded by the absolute best people. Don't ever forget it. 🤍
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