07/24/2026
Mothers rarely arrive at family sessions thinking primarily about themselves.
They are watching whether everyone is dressed properly, wondering how long the children will cooperate, noticing the stray hair, the untucked shirt, or the child who has suddenly decided they would rather be anywhere else.
Their attention moves constantly between everyone they love. Mine often moves in the opposite direction.
I notice the hand that reaches for a child before anyone asks. The expression that appears while she is listening to them speak. The way she leans closer without realizing she has moved at all.
She may leave the session wondering whether we managed to create a photograph where everyone was looking in the right direction. I often leave thinking about the photographs she didn’t know I was making.
The ones where she was busy paying attention to everyone else, and for once, someone was paying attention to her.