06/22/2026
Who are YOU?
Not what you do for work. Not how old you are. Not where you live.
Who are you when nobody else gets a vote?
Who are you around the people who make you feel safest?
What things have been true about you for as long as you can remember?
None of us are one thing.
We're different versions of ourselves depending on whether we feel safe enough to be seen.
So, I'll go first.
My name is Katlin (pronounced Cat-lyn)... like a cat, which I love. But if you call me Kate-lyn, there's a small chance I'll choose violence.
I go by Katie. Or Kate. Or KT.
There are days when I don't brush or fix my hair. It's frizzy, it's a mess, and honestly, I really don't care. ๐
I've worn mismatched socks since I could dress myself. Even if I know I won't see another soul that day, I still won't put matching socks on. Bad juju or something.
I'm silly and childlike around the people I love and feel safe with. My nephews used to think I was their age, or at least close enough.
I'm reserved, shy, and mostly uncomfortable around people I don't know well, or people who don't really know me. The version of me that has to act serious feels like a stranger sometimes.
But if you break through my shell, I'm talkative, outgoing, and have a remarkable talent for saying inappropriate things at inappropriate times.
I'm slightly sensitive, but highly sarcastic.
I care far more than I let on.
I either give vague information or waaaaaay too many details. There is no in-between.
That's me.
Not all of me.
But the parts that have been there all along.
So tell me, who are you?
I know versions of many of you, but that's only a piece of who you are.
I genuinely want to know.
Who are YOU at your core?