06/01/2026
Over the next little while, weāll be sharing individual images and stories from the incredible women who participated in our waterfall empowerment sessions.
Today, weāre sharing story.
āIāve always had a disconnected relationship to my body since I was a kid. By my late 20s, I was at a crossroads; could I stand aging as a man?
I looked at my thinning hair in the mirror and my beard. I was getting older in this vessel and the reflection in the mirror was distressing. I was left with the vision that what was happening to me wasnāt natural and I was in someone elseās skin. I didnāt choose to be a man and it was killing me. The answer was ultimately no. I couldnāt stand the idea of waking up one day as an old man and I had to make a choice or die.
I chose to transition from man to woman, pursuing hormone replacement therapy and gender-confirming surgeries. Little by little, the reflection in the mirror was less alien to me and more aligned with my spirit.
Receiving the photos was shocking. I looked comfortable. I looked feminine and beautiful. I had just turned 30 and I felt amazing!
Choosing to transition was a choice for myself, to give the prospect of being myself and aging in a more aligned body a shot, and itās working.
The chaos of medical consultations and fighting insurance companies is being replaced by a new journey of enjoying the quieter moments, putting down roots in my community, supporting my friends and loved ones, feeling natural and effortless in my femininity, and the powerful contentment of waking up every day being me in this imperfect but beautiful vessel.
The waterfall empowerment session is my chance to come into my middle age being in my most authentic form, feeling natural and connected to myself and the world around me.
Like the rush of the water above us, there is so much power in embracing our unique authenticity.ā