09/07/2026
YESSSS... I am officially 4 years alcohol free. 🤍
But I'm not going to make this a “sobriety” post.
Because honestly, what I really want to talk about is life.
Every year I take photos in my garden. And if I'm being totally honest, I didn't love my garden this year. It was beautiful... but messy. A little overgrown. Unorganized. Some things absolutely thriving and blooming like crazy, while other parts needed more love than I gave them.
And actually... that's kinda what life looks like, right!?
I look at the woman I was 4 years ago and I barely recognize her sometimes.
Not because everything is perfect now. F**k no. 😂
There are parts of my life that are blooming. Parts I'm incredibly proud of and parts I've worked REALLY fu***ng hard for.
And there are still parts that need tending to.
But one of the biggest things I've learned over these last 4 years is that YOU are the only person who can change your life.
No one is coming to do it for you.
And I actually think that's one of the most empowering things you can realize.
Because it means you get to decide.
You can change your mind.
You can start fresh.
You decide what doesn't feel like you anymore.
You can become the version of YOU that you've been searching for. She (or he) is in there. You just gotta decide your ready to get there!
You can do, be, create and have so much more than you think you can.
Four years ago I made one decision that changed the direction of my entire life.
And today I'm sitting in my slightly chaotic garden 😂 surrounded by things I've planted, grown and cared for... realizing maybe it doesn't have to be perfectly manicured to be fu***ng beautiful.
Neither does a life.
You have this one beautiful life. And how fu***ng lucky are you. To be here. Breathing. Experiencing. Being a human. This. One. LIFE.
What are you going to do with it? 🤍
Ps: my cat came for some photos and I am so happy he did! 🐈⬛️ 😺