09/25/2023
—By Yesterday
We’re supposed to leave things/places behind that don’t inspire us. The somehow cause us harm if we hold onto them, and the same could be said about relationship. We already know if someone disrespects you enough times there isn’t anything you can do to change their mind. And if their behaviour is egregious in nature, we don’t stand there asking for a second or third session. Why would we? We could argue the merits of maintaining ties that are essential, and maybe someone was having a “bad” day. However if people are kind enough to show you who they are, be obliged to give them the space to proceed. By yesterday, we’re supposed to know all of those things, how to act, what not to do, how to treat others, and how to show up for people you care about, or decide that showing up isn’t in the cards because that’s reciprocal in nature and you’ve learned it’s a one way street. By yesterday, we’re supposed to know how to apologize, and make amends. By yesterday, we begin to understand that certain people don’t make the circle anymore and that’s okay. There’s so many reasons to learn from yesterday, and that “by yesterday” is probably the furthest we ought to look. No use digging up old dirt because we might end up with a huge pit. ..
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