05/10/2025
Culture. Identity. Belonging.
Three words that have built my inner world, thread by thread.
Growing up Tamil in Nagpur’s Marathi heartland, with Bengali neighbours who fed me mishti doi and love in equal measure, I learned early that identity isn’t inherited. It’s absorbed.
From sabudana khichdi followed by kheer kadam, alta on my hands before dance class, Roy Uncle calling me “Toopli,” and Pujo pandals echoing with the sound of dhaak, I didn’t just learn Bengali, I learned belonging.
Years later, in Basel, it’s the same melody.. anjalis, bhog, roshmolai, tant saree brought by friends, shakha-pola gifted with prayers. Each moment, a reminder that belonging isn’t where you’re born. It’s where you’re embraced.
Today, at my first Sindoor Khela, it all came together.
An identity that had waited patiently to come alive.
Main character energy, red and radiant.
Maa, continue to bless me with the strength to hold many identities in one heart.
Dugga Dugga. ❤️