11/11/2025
Yesterday was Rowan's 1st birthday. True to form it wasn't quite how we planned it but we got to celebrate with him and reflect on the crazy journey me and Fiona have been on. It's been wild but I wouldn't have it any other way. Some of the things I've learnt this year:
1. Embrace whatever comes your way and roll with it.. It might not be how you want it to go but that doesn't mean no good can come from it.
2. The people who truly care about you show up at all times not just in fair weather. They aren't waiting for a signal from you either.
3. Even the most mundane things can be interesting. You just need to bring a sense of wonder.
4. Appreciate the little things. The cuddles, the smile you get when you enter a room, all the firsts. The stress and fatigue of day to day life can drown it out sometimes.
5. Don't take for granted the love and support you get. Let them know that you appreciate what they do for you.
I needed reminding of these myself at various points this year. It's been tough. Especially at the beginning. But that's life. It's tough at the start and it gets easier with practice, patience and perseverance.
Thank you to mine and Rowan's better half Fiona who is an incredible Mum and wife. I don't always deserve you but I won't stop trying.
To everyone that has shown up, asked how we are and been a part of Rowan's first year in even the smallest way. Thank you 🙏♥️👨🍼
