24/07/2026
This is Joanne, one of our Breast Friend Calendar Girls. Please take a moment to read her incredible story......
My world changed in October 2023 sitting in the consultant’s room being told you have Breast Cancer. After he said the words breast cancer, I heard nothing else from the consultant. White envelopes start coming through your letter box from the hospital for appointments. I had barely got my head around having cancer; and then being asked to make decisions about your treatments.
To quote a book I found by Dr Frances Goodhart and Lucy Atkins, they called it a Storm of Cancer and that is how I felt. Your boat (life) is going great and then bang you hit a storm (cancer), and you are trying to get to shore, but your maps, your sense of direction is lost (decision making) and you are being pushed further out to sea. The lifeboat arrives (your breast surgical team) trying to come along side you to rescue you, attaching ropes and steering you to shore (operation). Just when you think you are near light on the shore, another storm picks up (my radiotherapy) and in some ways that is even harder. Thanks to my lovely nurses in the radiotherapy unit, they got me through it. What is weird is you are having treatment but feeling worse each week.
Eventually the storm calms and you see your family and friends on the shore cheering and waiting for you, you think you can now steer the boat by yourself (treatment over) but all feels different, the boat is damaged and needs time to repair (my recovery) my family and friends are so relieved to have me back. But you don’t feel the same, the shore is different and you are constantly looking and listening for the weather forecast to see if the storm will start again.
I feel this is me; it was not so much the cancer and during the six months of treatment. It was after. The emotional trauma of coming to terms of what had happened to me both emotional and physically. After treatment and you leave hospital, the recovery starts, friends and family are great but it’s hard to describe what it was like. I then found out about Moving Forward and this was the start of my recovery; they were wonderful and Breast Care Now really understood and answers questions for me. This led to the Red Breast; women who had been there and totally understood what it was like.
I heard from then about how they had done a calendar in 2024 and felt so empowered. So, it was now time for me to give something back, to the hospital that saved my life and doing the calendar feels so right and I know will take me out of my comfort zone but also raises money to help people going through cancer.
I feel blessed I have come through my cancer journey it’s been hard, but also made me realise life is for enjoyment, so I retired and now enjoying lots of new experiences of life, all thanks to family, friends and the support I had during Breast Cancer. Thank you
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