18/06/2026
10 years ago today I made one decision that completely changed my life.
I asked one of my best friends if I could shadow her wedding photographer.
She replied:
“Funny you should ask, we were actually thinking of asking you to photograph it.”
Just like that.
No portfolio.
No experience.
No clue what I was doing.
So Richard bought me my first full-frame camera, a Canon 6D, and I jumped in at the deep end.
Which, if you know me, is very on brand 😆
I was terrified.
Not of the camera.
Of getting in the way.
I worried I’d distract people from Mel and Shaun. I worried I’d miss moments. I worried I’d have the wrong settings. I’d never photographed or second-shot a wedding in my life.
But I did know one thing, I wanted them to remember everything.
Not just the portraits.
Not just the big moments.
Everything.
The proud look on their parents’ faces during the ceremony.
The hugs.
The glances.
The moments they didn’t even realise were happening.
10 years later, I’ve photographed hundreds of weddings, families and businesses.
I’ve left my teaching job.
Survived Covid.
Questioned whether I even wanted to carry on.
Found my confidence.
Found my style.
And discovered that the thing people value most isn’t actually photography.
It’s feeling something.
Whether I’m photographing a wedding, a family, or a business, that’s still what I’m trying to do.
Help people look back and remember how it felt.
So thank you Mel and Shaun.
You probably didn’t realise it at the time, but that one conversation changed everything 🤍