02/11/2023
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Dear Auntie Susie.
Please keep me anonymous. My girlfriend and I are working but it seems like I'm the only one always spending in this relationship. She initiates dates, plans and vacations that I have to pay for. I pay for her clothing and airtime for her phone. On top of that she expects me to buy her child clothes. I don't have a child of mine own yet. When I'm broke before the month ends, she doesn't help me, she says a man that expects money from a woman is weak. When I ask her what she does with her money she says a man must never ask a woman about her money.
Basically, in this relationship we only discuss my money. Anytime we step out, she orders expensive drinks which I have to pay. I once went to her place unannounced and found her drinking cheap drinks but when she's with me she says she can only drink baileys and other expensive drinks. It seems like her taste is only expensive when it's my money we are spending. I love this woman but I think she's selfish. She once told me to go apply for a loan at quickCredit one time I asked her for 500 cedis for petrol. That day she asked me to fetch her child and other family members with my car. I got paid a week later and she asked me to give her money for frontal. She sees nothing wrong with this. If I say no she gives me bad love-making. She will just lie there as if she's waiting for a doctor to check her heart rate. Is this how a relationship should be in 2023? I’m asking the ladies on your platform .
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