11/06/2026
The words to the song in this video sing true to my experience of long-term solo travel.
“It’s beautiful.” Those are words I find myself saying over and over again as I travel.
Beauty is a castle rising above the trees. Beauty is a sailboat gliding across a lake. Beauty is rain rolling across a hillside or sunlight breaking through heavy clouds and alighting on the dew of a flower.
Travel has also taught me that beauty isn’t always found in grand moments. Sometimes, it’s found in the ordinary.
One of the things I love most about slow travel is the normality of a place can settle deeply into your soul. You begin to experience the rhythm of a community. You notice the morning commuters, the regulars at the cafe, the dog walkers, and the changing weather. What is ordinary to someone else can feel exceptional to you! Sometimes a place becomes part of you, and you carry it with you long after you’ve left.
People occasionally ask if I get bored or lonely traveling solo. Of course there are moments when I feel lonely or unhappy… that’s part of the human experience. But, if I’m being honest, I was far lonelier when I was working in an unfulfilling job and coming home exhausted to an empty house at the end of the day. I sometimes think back to that version of myself and wonder where all that concern was when I truly needed it.
These days, I rarely find myself bored. I enjoy my own company. I have enough hobbies, interests, and curiosities to keep me occupied. There is always another path to walk, another book to read, another photograph to take, or another adventure awaiting to unfold.
This year especially, I have found myself drawn to the wind and the water. I’ve stood on windswept countrysides hilltops, watched sailboats drift across lakes, and spent countless hours walking through nature.
Travel has given me the opportunity to spend more time outdoors, and that is something I will always be grateful for. Nature has a way of restoring my spirit. And, while I love a sunny day as much as anyone, I’ve discovered that I might enjoy a rainy one even more.
Here’s one last food for thought about solo travel. When you are on the road, you are no longer someone’s daughter, someone’s employee, someone’s neighbor, or the person others expect you to be. For a little while, you’re simply YOU. The people you meet along the way often meet the truest version of you, because there is finally room to let those quieter parts of yourself shine and breathe.
Solo travel is a beautiful thing.
Not because every day is perfect, but because it gives you the freedom to experience the world on your own terms. I truly hope that everyone has the opportunity to experience that feeling at least once in their lifetime.