01/07/2024
I assume when you say you want to stone hearted, you want to be less hurt, live in the present than in the past or not get emotional about certain things in life. If it is so, believe me you don't want to be stone hearted, all you want is to stop being hyper sensitive. Stone hearted people miss out some serious fun and bliss of life. However you could do a few things(in the order below)
Understand what is your real problem and then divert yourself from it by dealing with it in easy ways. Broaden your horizon so that your problem start seeming smaller.
Stop taking things personally, take it easy, take it light....don't single out yourself.
Respond to life and people, don't react. Reaction comes with your own perspective and your perspective is entirely your own.
Life is as bad for all of us and as good for all of us, all of us are in equal dirt...remember this.
Develop a hobby and love yourself before you love any one and anything else.
I don't want to you to think I am idealistic, I am a creative professional who is hyper sensitive her own self but I love to have fun and I am practicing to be responsive than reactive and it is helping. Hope it helps you too :)
