17/06/2026
These are the 8 places I’d send my best friend to tomorrow if she asked. I know someone on here will question my choices….
Mostly walkable, easy to navigate. All places I’ve personally felt “safe” in as a solo female traveler. And most importantly, great enough that you won’t feel swallowed alive on day one.
A few rules I’d give her no matter which one she picks:
✦ Book a flight that lands in daylight. No first-time night arrivals.
✦ Pre-book your first night accommodation — splurge a little, this isn’t the trip to gamble.
✦ Set up your eSIM before you board (Holafly is my pick).
✦ Tell ONE trusted person your full itinerary — hotel names, train times, addresses.
✦ Pack lighter than you think. Carry-on only for trip one.
✦ The first 48 hours will feel weird. By day three, it clicks.
Also, if I could have done more: Vietnam, and Jordan!
A quick note on what I mean by “safe”:
I’m a white 40 something, cisgender, heterosexual woman, and that shapes how I experience the world and how others perceive me when I travel. Safety is deeply personal and influenced by race, sexuality, gender identity, gender expression, nationality, and countless other factors.
The destinations on this list felt safe to me based on my own experiences, but travel is not one-size-fits-all. What feels safe and comfortable for one person may not feel the same for someone else, and I think that context matters.
If going completely solo feels like too much for trip one, group trips are an underrated way to start. I’m hosting a women’s group trip to Iceland in January if you want company on your first one (link in bio).I also have friends in group travel and would totally refer you to them!
Hey experienced solo travelers: what would you add? Drop your first solo destination below for the woman trying to work up the courage to book hers. We were all in her shoes once⬇️👏