21/05/2026
"The Right Kind of Complicated"
Something I learned slowly,
Through the ache and the grace—
Love isn't finding someone
Who fits your empty space.
The right one won't just complete you,
They'll lovingly complicate.
They'll stir your quiet waters
And challenge every comfortable gate.
They won't let you stay small,
Or hide behind "that's just me."
They'll hand you a mirror
And ask who you're choosing to be.
Not to break you, but to build you.
Not to harm, but to refine.
A partner sharpens iron—
That's the truest love design.
Because easy isn't always growth,
And comfort isn't always home.
The best love stretches your soul wide;
And refuses to let you roam alone.
So find the one who complicates you ;In all the holy, healing ways.
That's not a roommate with benefits—
That's a love that's here to stay!!
Photographed: imagery
Victor Chris Elukpo
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