14/06/2026
As someone who advocates for people with endometriosis and better women’s healthcare, I find the current obsession with trans people deeply frustrating.
While politicians and commentators spend their time debating who should be allowed in a bathroom, people with endometriosis are still waiting years for diagnosis. Many are struggling to access specialist care, pain management, surgery, and treatment. Women’s health remains underfunded, under-researched, and too often dismissed.
If politicians genuinely cared about protecting women, these are the conversations we’d be having.
What’s often overlooked is that transphobia is deeply rooted in misogyny.
Much of the anti-trans rhetoric we see today relies on rigid ideas about what a woman should look like, how a woman should behave, and who gets to be recognised as a “real” woman. These same attitudes have been used for generations to control, police, and diminish women.
As women with endometriosis know all too well, we already live in a world where our bodies are questioned, our experiences are doubted, and our autonomy is often challenged. We know what it feels like to have other people decide they know our bodies better than we do.
Don’t let anti-trans rhetoric distract you from the issues that are actually impacting women’s lives every single day.
Trans people are not the reason someone waited a decade for an endometriosis diagnosis.
Trans people are not the reason healthcare services are stretched.
Trans people are not the reason women’s pain is routinely minimised and ignored.
Division is a distraction. A very effective one.
While we’re busy arguing with our neighbours, the real issues remain unsolved.
Women deserve better healthcare. Trans people deserve dignity and safety. These goals are not in conflict.
In fact, the fight for bodily autonomy, dignity, respect, and access to healthcare is the same fight.
We don’t improve women’s lives by attacking another marginalised community. We improve them by challenging misogyny, demanding better from our institutions, and refusing to let politicians turn vulnerable people into scapegoats.
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