25/05/2026
Part VI: The Garden I've Become
Mothers are like gardens.
Part of the seasons, winter, spring, summer... There always comes autumn. The shedding of things no longer serving us. The quiet realisation that some parts of my old life faded away, unable to be sustained. Lifestyle, friendships, old dreams, future plans, they all shifted.
And the shift shines light on whats really important. The husband that knows what I need before I do, always ready to tap in. The Grandma that shows up week after week, month after month. The Grandad that will literally build anything if you ask him to. The mum friends that just 'get it', and ask 'yeah but how are you really?'
When you have little ones to show the world, suddenly you give a f*ck about things that didn't used to matter. No longer blindly accepting the status quo or shrugging things away as 'that's just how it is.' You find the courage to grow with every season, face the difficult ones, the worries and the fears, to protect what's really important.
The beautiful thing is that through the hardest seasons our roots are strengthened. When you reach out for the sun again, new shoots will emerge - fresh, green and vibrant. I'm not like the old me anymore, but I like the new me โ๏ธ I like the garden I've become.
๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ด๐ต๐ข๐ณ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ด ๐ข ๐ง๐ฆ๐ธ ๐ต๐ฆ๐ด๐ต ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ช๐ต ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ต๐ด ๐ธ๐ช๐ต๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ'๐ด ๐ฅ๐ข๐บ ๐ง๐ญ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ค๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ข ๐ด๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ด ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ญ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ต๐ธ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐จ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ต๐ฉ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ข๐ฐ๐ด ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฏ๐ข๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ณ๐ข๐ฅ๐ช๐ค๐ข๐ญ ๐ต๐ณ๐ข๐ฏ๐ด๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ฅ๐บ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ด๐ต๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ต๐ถ๐ฎ. ๐๐ฆ ๐ด๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ด๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ค๐ฉ ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ณ๐บ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฐ '๐ณ๐ฆ๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฏ' ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฐ ๐ธ๐ฆ ๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ, ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ธ๐ฆ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ๐จ๐ฆ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ค๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ฃ๐ณ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐จ๐ข๐ณ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ธ๐ฆโ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ. ๐ ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ค๐ข๐ฑ๐ต๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ง๐ฆ๐ญ๐ต ๐ญ๐ช๐ฌe.
๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฌ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ช๐ค๐ฉ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ณ๐ต ๐ฉ๐ข๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ง๐ข๐ท๐ฐ๐ณ๐ช๐ต๐ฆ, ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ต๐ช๐ญ๐ญ ๐ง๐ช๐จ๐ถ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต?