05/01/2026
Before the birth of our first son, my husband and I decided that we wouldn't share his face on social media. There was no way he could consent to it as a baby... and even as he gets a little older and able to make simple choices, there is no way for him to understand what the internet is, what dangers lurk just on the very edges of the parts that seem more innocent.
Informed consent has always been at the core of my business. No one will see your photos before you do, no image will be shared online without your explicit permission, and not before you’ve been able to enjoy your images for at least a few weeks yourself first. The rule I go by is simple: No Surprises.
The combination of my own desire to protect my children, and the importance of informed consent, has led me to the only possible conclusion—that I must hold the same standards for all children, not just my own.
For a long time, I have felt okay about posting client’s children’s faces with their parent’s permission. It felt more removed than my own children on my own social media; I didn’t share children’s names, or the day they were born, or other personal details. But the internet is changing, and my concerns have broadened.
I’ve been sitting with this for a while, and was delighted to see another photographer take this step in her business recently. It was the nudge I needed to make this post, and go through my website and previous posts to action what was in my heart.
This has been a hard call to make as a business owner trying to advertise my service with the kinds of photos you can expect to see in your own galleries when you book with me... But as a mum, and a human? There has never been an easier decision.
The good news? (I mean, it’s all good news, safety is the goodest news there is!)... Your private photo galleries won’t change. When you book a session with me, you can expect a gallery filled with all the bright, beautiful faces of your children and loved ones, just as I’ve always done.
P.S. The third slide should read "eeeeeven IF I never share my favourite images," and I am annoyed that I missed that typo 😅