26/04/2026
Three tips for writing your vows by Soph from Married by Friends (an incredible team of celebrants based in Wānaka) 💛
1. Your celebrant will very likely supply you with a vow guide - full of prompts, examples + ideas on where to start. Use it. Starting with guidance is a whole lot easier than staring at a blank page wondering if you’ve ever had a thought in your life.
2. Use the notes app on your phone and add to it as things pop up. The weird little habits you adore, the things they do that make life better, promises that actually matter to your relationship. You can't pick when inspiration will hit!
3. Honest, personal + slightly imperfect > ChatGPT scripted vows. Every. Single. Time (and yes, we will know).
Bonus tip: Don’t leave it until the last minute. We ask our couples to send vows through two weeks prior for printing, which means less stress for you, and no panic-writing at 11:47pm the night before.
### Much love, the Friends