07/09/2026
This image just received a Silver Distinction at the NZIPP Iris Awards, and it's one of the ones that means the most to me.
It's part of a dementia-themed piece I built with my family, those are my parents, because dementia isn't a distant subject for us, it's our life. My husband's parents both live with it, and if you've walked this road with someone you love, you'll know what I mean when I say we lose them twice: first the person they were, slowly, in pieces, and then eventually, the person themselves.
My son Reuben is in this shot too, wearing his little "grandson" name tag, because that's the layered storytelling I wanted to build into the image. He's always up for playing along with my ideas, no matter how strange the brief sounds, and I love him for it.
Everyone in this photo is okay right now. But making this image was our way of holding that reality gently, naming it, sitting with it, and putting something true into the world instead of looking away from it.
If dementia has touched your family too, you're not alone in it, and we see you.
Has dementia touched your family? I'd love to hear how you've navigated it, drop a comment, I read every one. 💛