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09/10/2023

I gave up trying to be perfect a long time ago and it was the best thing I’ve ever done.
Trying to please all the wrong people for all the wrong reasons was the right choice for me.
I’m never going to be flawless, and I’m not going to try to be.
I’m a wonderful mixture of moods, emotions and charisma that is absolutely lovable.
Sure, I don’t know where I’m going most of the time and I don’t have a clue about why I’m in the mood I’m in, but that’s just part of my attractiveness.
Whether my hair and makeup is a mess- if I even remembered to wear makeup at all-or if I’m completely put together, I’m the same gritty, real and down to earth gal all the time.
I may cry at the drop of the hat or burst into laughter for no reason whatsoever, but I’m always authentic and genuine.
I own my flaws and celebrate my scars, because they tell the story of my journey, my failures and my history..
And I wouldn’t change who I am or where I’ve been for anything.
There’s a unique beauty in my brokenness and a distinct wonder in my gorgeous mess, just ask anyone who knows me.
Whoever really knows me always appreciates me for everything I am..the good, the bad and the silly.
Sure, I don’t have it together all the time, but truthfully, I don’t have to.
I’m fine flying by the seat of my pants and figuring it out as I go.
Maybe I get lost a time or two, but I always seem to end up where I’m meant to be.
It may not always be pretty, but it’s always true..just like me.
I know who I am and what I want, and I own every step of my journey- laughter, tears and all the other stuff in between.
I may not be who I set out to be, and I may not be the model person that everyone thinks I should be, but I’m an amazing woman that loves hard, lives fully and never gives up on her dreams.
If you ask me, that’s a pretty good way to be.
|ravenwolf

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29/03/2023

Her journey has never been an easy one- in fact, she never really had a choice on who she became or where life led her.
She set off to chase dreams and find adventure and somewhere along the way, she ended up finding her strength instead.
She didn’t choose to become strong or become brave, she just did what she had to do to keep going and some days, just survive her life.
Truthfully, she didn’t know what she was doing most of the time or even how she’d make it through, but after the storms passed, she was always standing..strong and resilient.
She learned that sometimes, you learn more from the journey than the destination.
During those tough times where she forged her strength from the fire, she wouldn’t depend on anyone or anything, for she knew she could handle it all herself.
People might call her headstrong or stubborn, and she’d just smile and carry on.
She took great pride in her independence and no one would change that.
Her friends would always push her to look for love, to find a partner..because they cared about her and didn’t want her to be alone.
But this fiery woman full of life and spirit had always been okay with being alone- in fact, she thrived on it.
She loved her people and enjoyed their company, but she didn’t need someone else or for love to complete her or make her happy.
She found that long ago within herself and it was the best decision she had ever made.
So, when the suitors came calling and people asked why she wasn’t with someone, the fire behind her eyes would roar to life..
“Because I’m happy just the way that I am.”
She would never turn away what’s meant to be, but she wasn’t looking for anything.
She had found all she had needed in herself, the beauty of her life and the joy of being fully alive.
She let the universe decide who and what was meant for her and she’d keep living in the moment and being present.
That was what would always make her powerful indeed:
She had stopped surviving and started thriving..
Happy to be who she was, do what she wanted and never look back.
Her life, her choices.
She’d never settle for anything less.
|ravenwolf

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10/01/2023

“Patience visited me
And it reminded me
That good things take time to come to fruition
And grow slowly with stability

Peace visited me
And it reminded me
That I may remain calm through the storms of life
Regardless of the chaos surrounding me

Hope visited me
And it reminded me
That better times lay ahead
And it would always be there to guide and uplift me

Humility visited me
And it reminded me
That I may achieve it
Not by trying to shrink myself and make myself less
But by focusing on serving the world and uplifting those around me

Kindness visited me
And it reminded me
To be more gentle, forgiving and compassionate toward myself
And those surrounding me

Confidence visited me
And it reminded me
To not conceal or suppress my gifts and talents
In order to make others feel more comfortable
But to embrace what makes me me

Focus visited me
And it reminded me
That other people’s insecurities and judgements about me
Are not my problem
And I should redirect my attention
From others back to me

Freedom visited me
And it reminded me
That no one has control over my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing
But me

And love visited me
And it reminded me
That I need not search for it in others
As it lies within me.”

— Tahlia Hunter

[ Art • “Memento” by Tom Bagshaw ]

29/11/2022

Yessss girllll!☺️

She’s a strong woman with a intense personality..and she makes no apologies for who and what she is.
All the men gush about how amazing she is, how they admire her strength and pursue her with relentless intent..
But the thing is, most of them just like the idea of her- the real and authentic woman that she is will always be too much for most of those chasing her..
They don’t understand the kind of woman she truly is and what it takes to love a person like her.
Her needs and desires are simple enough- love and be loved, respect and loyalty..
Ideals that are much more than just words to her..they are part of her values.
She’s not one to be taken lightly or dismissed easily, for she goes after what she wants and doesn’t know what defeat is.
The weaker men fancy themselves to be something other than what they truly are- for it takes a strong man to run with this lioness..
And none of them fit that bill, though they don’t seem to realize it.
She’s not content with those of lackluster character or ordinary passion.
She needs more- no, she craves the one who can ignite her heart and connect with her soul..
And that’s no easy task given the wall she has built around her inner depths to protect herself.
Many have tried and all have failed, because in her world, she’s not going to settle, wait or be an option.
She demands the best of those who stay in her life, just as she gives..
All of her heart, every bit of her soul and loyalty that knows no end.
The ones that come along seeking temporary satisfaction and superficial desire don’t ever get a chance ..she knows the look and feel of a coyote in wolf’s clothing.
She carries herself with dignity, class and courage and expects the same from any that would attempt to love her.
They’ll push her away, saying she’s overbearing, too demanding or too much..
And yes, she’ll gladly tell anyone that’s she’s too much for those who aren’t strong enough to run with her.
She’ll never be happy with just anyone, because she doesn’t actually need anyone.
She loves herself completely and values her time and independence..
So, if someone wants to step up and vie for her affection, they’d better be prepared to be patient, true and genuine, for her world isn’t one that tolerates fake or insincere.
She’s been down that road too many times before and burned that bridge so that she’d never go back.
She’s always trusted the way things worked- and if love was meant for her, it would show up when the time is right..not a minute before.
So, she made sure that the weaker men with false intentions could save their time, energy and shallow requests..
She wasn’t stopping for a distraction that would never earn her heart.
Maybe she was tough, she was definitely strong..but she would always be one of a kind..
And until someone came to change her mind, she’d keep living her best life.
Strong, beautiful and free.
|Ravenwolf

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08/10/2022

She’s used to being the strong one.
She knows what it’s like to be alone and facing battles that feel overwhelming.
But that’s her life and she’s long accepted it the way it is.
She’s not going to be a victim, complain or seek help to get through her days,
For she has long known that she alone will be the one fighting for her peace, survival and sometimes, sanity.
Truly, all she seeks is happiness…
And it’s often the one thing that eludes her.
But she’ll keep showing up and keep trying.
That’s who she is and how she is built…
Pieces together from the often broken pieces of the times that she’s fallen apart and gotten back up and tried again.
Lovers have broken her heart, friends have let her down and people have disappointed her.
But she still keeps hoping and loving anyways.
She won’t let the failures of the past darken her hopes for the future.
She believes in love, dreams and herself.
She fights to become the woman she wants to be.
She chooses to never give up.
She’s many things, but she’ll never stay in one spot and doesn’t expect perfection in her life..
But she pushes herself every day to be better than she was yesterday.
Maybe someone will come along one day that doesn’t try to tame her wild heart and won’t seek to cage her passionate spirit,
But she hasn’t found it yet…
But it doesn’t mean she will give up hope.
But until that day,
She will do what she always has done.
Pick up her sword and fight the battles with unrelenting strength and fiery resolve.
She’s a unique and strong woman..
And that’s just what she does.
She knows the sun always rises on a new day..
So she keeps dreaming of the day when she will see the sunrise holding the hand of the one she loves.
Then, she will finally be able to rest.
|ravenwolf

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07/10/2022

WHEN YOU LOVE AN ANCIENT SOUL

There is a special type of person in this world that is often misunderstood.
These people tend to be the loners, the free spirits, the innocent lovers. They see the world for all it can and should be.
They are the old souls, the dreamers, the people in tune with life, so intuitive of emotions that they frighten us.

They scare not because of who they are, but because of who we are not, what we lack.
Ancient souls reach depths we cannot understand. They have a connection to the Universe, to nature, and that's why they are the people who are going to change the world.

Their touch is unusual, their s*x is unusual, their clarity of view is unusual.
We often feel inferior, as if we have to strive to be even remotely close to their level, to be worthy of their love.

It takes a confident person to love an old soul. But it's worth it. It will change your life.

They are romantic, they are loyal, they help us grow, they are not materialistic, they understand the deep connections in life, they are grateful, they are examples of bravery.

They walk the most painful roads of this life, and yet somehow they find the courage to smile, to be selfless, to support others.
Loving an old soul and being loved by them is a gift from the Universe!

~Unknown ~
Artist Unknown

21/08/2022

I’m not a failure but I’ve failed.
I’m not a mistake but I’ve screwed up.
I’m not a disaster but I don’t always get it right.
Truth be told,
I’ve fallen more times than I can count and I’m okay with that- I learned from each failure.
I’ve stumbled, failed and made more mistakes than most people,
But then, I’m not like most people...
They haven’t had to claw and scratch to find their way, to survive, just to be happy.
I had to be strong when I thought I had nothing left because I didn’t have any other options.
I surrendered everything that I was to become who I was meant to be.
The critics don’t know what it means to be at the end of their rope and not know where to turn.
But you see, that’s where my story begins- where everyone else’s tale stops.
I didn’t just crash and burn,
I fell and crashed into a million pieces.
I shattered in ways that most can never recover from,
But that’s just the beauty of my story-
It’s a tale of massive failures and anguishing struggle,
It’s a journey of broken hearts and wounded wings..
But more than that,
My path is a story of triumph amongst the tragedy,
Rising from the ashes and finding myself when not long before, I couldn’t even find my way.
It’s a rekindling of my fire when my spark was almost gone.
There were many times I was down and out,
So lost in the darkness I couldn’t even see the light..
But that’s what makes me who I am and part of my indomitable spirit.
I uncovered my strength and unleashed my courage.
I clawed my way out of the abyss into the light.
I didn’t know how I’d make it some days, but somehow I always found a way.
I don’t need help up and I don’t want a hand out.
You can keep your sympathy, I’m gorgeous in all the ways that matter..deep and soulful.
I want someone to walk beside me and appreciate everything that went into making me the beautifully broken heart that roared back from the fire.
Equal, no more and no less.
Love me for me and all my splendid chaos and you’ll begin to understand the fire in my heart.
I have magic in my spirit and a passion in my heart that nothing can take away from me.
So, honey, understand that life may knock me down and I’ll have to fight harder some days,
But you can’t keep a strong person down, ever.
So, stand with me or stand aside, I have places to go and dreams to catch.
Like most wild creatures,
I was always meant to be free.
These wings..they’re made to soar.
Love me the way that I deserve or let me go.. you’ll never keep me in a cage when I’m meant to fly high.
|Ravenwolf

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24/07/2022

I won’t tell you it’s been an easy journey learning how to be okay with being alone.
I used to think that I always needed someone - whether it was a friend, partner or lover, I hated being alone because I didn’t know how to be by myself.
I wanted someone there not because I wanted them beside me, but because I needed them there to make me feel better..
And that was always the wrong way to live.
The moment I realized what I was doing was a life changing experience-
I stepped back and saw that I was using others to make myself feel better and I had promised myself that I would never do that.
So I did what I had to do and forced myself to do what I was most afraid of..
And just be alone.
With myself, with my thoughts…
And the more I did it, the easier it became.
I won’t tell you it was easy, because the first few times, I wanted to call someone so badly..
But I didn’t.
I look back at those times and smile-
It seems like such a small thing unless you in the middle of it…
Then, it’s anything but insignificant.
But it’s important-
Maybe one of the most important things I’ve done.
Now, the people that I have in my life- beside me- are the ones that I choose to be there…
Not because I need someone to keep me from being lonely,
But because I want their company.
I’m glad I learned to be okay with being alone.
It’s made me stronger and happier.
So, if I hold out my hand to you and ask you to walk beside me,
Just know that I am doing it because I want you there..
Not because I’m afraid of being alone.
And that has made all the difference.
Happiness now starts and ends with me, and I can’t imagine life any other way now.
|ravenwolf

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02/07/2022

All my life, people told me that I wasn’t good enough and that I got what I deserved.
I was judged by those who didn’t know me and made to feel like I wasn’t worth anything.
They’d have me believe that I’d never be happy and that I should accept the love of whoever I was lucky enough to find that would love me.
They couldn’t have been more wrong..
they don’t know me and definitely don’t know what I deserve.
That ends now.
I’m taking back my power and I’m changing my path.
I know who I am and what I want and I’ll accept nothing less.
I am good enough, I am worth it and I do deserve to be happy.
I’m standing up and letting my voice be heard, telling the rest of them that I don’t care what they think.
They don’t know my struggle- they don’t know where I’ve been or what I’ve overcome,
They don’t get to define me or my worth.
I’m going to find the beautiful people that will love me unconditionally, the partner who will respect me unequivocally and the dreams that I will never let go of.
This is my time and my choice, and I choose to be more.
More than what everyone else said I could be, more than I’ve ever been before.
I may not have all the answers and I’ll still stumble and fall, but I’ll always do it by my own terms.
I’ve failed but I’m not a failure.
I’ve been broken, but I’m still beautiful.
I’ve been lost, but I’ll find my way.
They scorned me because I was different, and I don’t really care- now,I’m celebrating my uniqueness.
I’m authentic, I’m real and I’ll always speak my mind.
I’m not taking the easy road and I know that it’ll be challenging, but nothing worth having comes without struggle.
I know I’ll have to kiss a few frogs before I find my love, and I’m okay with that.
Once in a lifetime love won’t just happen without work and patience -
But I won’t settle, I won’t quit and I’ll never accept anything less than the best.
I’m worth all the love and so much more.
I’m more than “enough,”
I’m amazing.
Just watch me while I go and change the world, one heart at a time..
Starting with my own.
|ravenwolf

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