FEAL The Lgbt's Pride

23/10/2024

21/10/2024

I cant fix stupid. I can't heal toxic. Loving people harder doesn't make them love me back the way I deserve to be loved. Over explaining myself doesn't mean I'll be understood. The day I realized this, is the day I have been free.

30/09/2024

TYPES OF INTELLIGENCE- PSYCHOLOGY

1) Intelligence Quotient (IQ)
2) Emotional Quotient (EQ)
3) Social Quotient (SQ)
4) Adversity Quotient (AQ)

1. Intelligence Quotient (IQ): this is the measure of your level of comprehension. You need IQ to solve maths, memorize things, and recall lessons.

2. Emotional Quotient (EQ): this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others, keep to time, be responsible, be honest, respect boundaries, be humble, genuine and considerate.

3. Social Quotient (SQ): this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go further in life than those with a high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize on improving IQ levels while EQ and SQ are played down.

A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.

Your EQ represents your Character, while your SQ represents your Charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs, especially your EQ and SQ.

Now there is a 4th one, a new paradigm:

4. The Adversity Quotient (AQ): The measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life, and come out of it without losing your mind.

When faced with troubles, AQ determines who will give up, who will abandon their family, and who will consider su***de.

Parents please expose your children to other areas of life than just Academics. They should adore manual labour (never use work as a form of punishment), Sports and Arts.

Develop their IQ, as well as their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of their parents.

Finally, do not prepare the road for your children. Prepare your children for the road.

(C)

11/04/2024

Hindi ako PLASTIC. I’m just nice to people who are also nice to me. and also, I don’t hate people for no reason. It’s either I hate their response in certain circumstances or I hate how they made me feel. so if ever you treat me badly, expect that i’ll do the same. some people really deserve to have a taste of their own medicine (c)

27/03/2024

21/06/2023

I have a Perfect God
That is perfectly perfect for my
Flaws and Imperfections.

08/05/2023

Grabe parang di nmn 3rd planet ang Earth sa Solar System. Parang kapitbahay lang ni Sun ang Mundo. Meygesh. 🥴🥵

04/01/2023

Kung nag seselos ka padin, kung chinicheck mo padin yung facebook nya para makita kung may kausap sya, kung binabawalan mo padin sya maki hang out sa mga tropa nya at kung takot kapadin mawala sya ayun ang dahilan kung bakit toxic at di kayo nag ggrow at di kayo nagiging matured together. Masarap mag mahal ng malaya at may tiwala sa isat isa. Yung nagagawa nyo yung mga bagay na gusto nyo pero alam nyo yung limits nyo. Yung hindi ka natatakot mawala sya kasi di ka gagawa ng bagay na ikasisira ng relasyon nyong dalawa 🖤 (c)

05/10/2022

You are sad more often than you are happy. I know that it’s not your partner’s responsibility to make you happy all the time. But it’s the responsibility of the relationship to make sure that you two are happy. It does not matter whose fault is this, yours or your partner’s. You keep fighting, you keep arguing, and you keep doubting where it’s going.

You have started to doubt yourself. You have lost your self-worth. You are made to feel worthless or just not good enough. You are reminded that you have so many problems. You are subtly reminded that your partner is doing a favor by staying with you. You are often compared with others and asked to learn from them. You don’t remember when was the last time you were told how amazing you are. A toxic relationship will always suck out all the self-confidence that you had.

You will be disrespected in little ways, constantly. Your personal space won’t be respected. You will be treated as a joint account of a bank. Any transaction will have to be approved by both parties. You won’t have the freedom to go wherever you want, with whoever you want, and for how long you want. You will be subtly made to believe that this is being done to protect you from that bad people. You will almost accept this lie that loyalty means slavery to your partner, your master. When you will argue that you deserve to make your own decisions, you will be told that you are not being loyal and almost characterless.

You will be pulled away from your family and friends, ever so subtly. You will be convinced how your parents don’t understand you and want to cage you, how your siblings don’t support you, and how your friends are just using you. You will be made to take away your time, conversations, and emotions from your people to your partner. Your partner will try to become the only person you share your things with. Your partner will make your life about your lover, that's it.

The fifth thing is that your soul will feel suffocated. You will always feel that you are stuck somewhere. You will wish to be the old you again, when life was simpler and happier.

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