06/05/2026
Since yesterday's post got people talking, here's the story that shaped my opinion on photographer wedding dress code. 👀📸
When I got married, my photographers showed up in tight biker shorts and a bright hot pink t-shirt, while the second photographer arrived in sweats and a crop top.
I was honestly shocked.
I'm a photographer myself. Casual clothes for a regular session? Absolutely. Though, weddings have always carried a different standard in my mind.
Before my wedding, I had talked with my photographer about the vision I had. We were eloping with immediate family, but I still wanted the day to feel intentional and formal. I stressed the importance of dress code to her, so I assumed the vendors would match that expectation.
I remember standing there getting ready, seeing them arrive, and thinking, "Oh, they'll change before the ceremony."
They never did.
Before anyone says, "They're behind the camera, who cares?" they may not be in my professional photos, but they are in my ceremony video. Every time the camera pans, there they are.
What made it even more surprising is that I had seen her work at other weddings before booking her, and she always appeared very polished and put together. So I wasn’t expecting such a different experience on my own wedding day.
Maybe that's why I have such a strong opinion on this topic now.
❗ I personally believe there should be a higher standard for vendors, unless clients specifically request a certain dress code. ❗
💬 Here’s my personal wedding attire advice for photographers: Dress appropriately & respectfully, and when in doubt ask your clients or wear black. I personally always choose black for weddings (unless told otherwise) and prioritize comfort in my shoes.
→ Black also hides sweat better! 😉
It’s all about being professional while still being able to move comfortably through a long day.
— Signed, a photographer who is booked out for weddings year-round and consistently receives great reviews. 🩷
