07/08/2020
I made the choice to speak up, tell my truth, and call out a predatory man in power... and although it was terrifying, I felt it was necessary to expose the corruptďżź side of the bo***ir world. Ewan was a well known photographer, with his wife Brianna selecting and grooming these women that he could photograph and push the limit on their comfort levels for their own agenda.
Before I knew it, I had over 15 messages, all from women with similar allegations and worst stories than mine. Being cherry picked and asked to model. My heart is broken for all the women who have now stepped forward after hearing my story, reading their stories, and knowing I was not crazy and their stories validated how I was feeling.
As women we are sexually harassed often, we grow numb to it, and we accept it. But enough is enough, NO MORE! I was tired of wearing a fake face and I decided it was time to call out all the bu****it and expose it.
This is me telling you to stop taking the s**t. Stand up for what you feel in your gut is right.
1. USE YOUR VOICE! I was able to say no. I was able to walk away so many women werenât able to. So many women were pushed far past their comfort level and that is not okay.
2. Just because he didnât touch you doesnât mean it isnât sexual harassment. Coercing you to do things youâre not comfortable with is still valid.
3. If youâre uncomfortable, get out. Separate yourself. It doesnât matter how popular or famous they may be. They can still be jackasses.
4. Grooming is real. Cherry picking is real. Be aware of peopleâs intentions when youâre modeling for them and know your limits.
5. Lastly, know it was not your fault. Know that you did not choose this and that you deserve more. You did not bring this upon yourself. You are brave and strong.
I will always stand up for you. I will always use my voice to spread awareness and self love. We all deserve respect.
Today I learned that I had more support in this community than I had ever imagined. I no longer felt alone, the educators, admins, and fellow bo***ir photographers all stood up with me and helped fight a fight much bigger than we all expected.
I love you all, I love all the people I have met through DoMore and Iâm happy to see it burn down after all these allegations and turn into something better! Thank you to all the women strong enough who shared their stories too, to all the male photographers who stood by us women, and to all the bo***ir photographers who stood up for us when our voices were silenced. I love you all.
Itâs time to
Photo of me by an amazing male bo***ir photographer who helped me find my voice
Alex âĽď¸