Oh, it's Leighann

09/03/2026

in case you needed the reminder—there are people out there you’ve yet to meet who will love the heck out of you. and when they do, oooh it’s gonna be so good ✨

follow Oh, it's Leighann for more encouragement + reminders for the journey

08/30/2026

I used to think I was defective because I'd never been in a relationship at 34. That was literally the word I used for years.

If you've ever felt that way—I see you. There's nothing wrong with you, you're not the only one, and it's not too late.

https://youtu.be/35SXC63AhxA?si=ZVP7max4wq6wQe6h

I used to think I was defective because I've never been in a relati...

08/25/2026

In case you’re worried about missing out, just so you know—what is meant for you will never pass you by 🫶🏾

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08/21/2026

thinking out loud about comparison, staying in your own lane, and the difference between wanting someone else's opportunities and actually wanting your own life.

and what finally forced me to ask myself, "what's the real cost of comparison?"

https://youtu.be/uln_E_OB2JU

my favorite creators were all at D23 this year and I wasn't, and th...

08/16/2026

I'm 34, and I can't trust my own mind. So I'm doing a 30-day experiment: every time my brain talks me out of something, I do the opposite.

https://youtu.be/kQCV7jsEuj8?si=Il08cQ_JZkzcIHFG

I'm 34, and I can't trust my own mind. So I'm doing a 30-day experi...

08/14/2026

and the lore continues…

I realized that I haven’t done an introductory-type post in a hot minute—and there have been so many new faces lately, and so many changes around here, that I wanted to share a little about what inspired me to switch things up!

if you’re feeling a little lost or you are in the midst of a life pivot (whether you know what you’re doing or not), this is the place. I hope my own journey will encourage you to stop telling yourself “it’s too late” or that if you’re unhappy in your current situation “this is all there is” and most importantly, I hope it will remind you that you’re not alone in any of this.

whether you’ve been here since the beginning, or you’re just learning the lore now—I’m really glad you’re here 🤍

08/02/2026

being in my mid-30s is wild because there are so many things that I no longer care to apologize for ever again

08/02/2026

part one | hills i will absolutely die on when it comes to relationships, self-love, and singleness. as a thirty-something who’s been single her entire life (stay tuned for part two)

which one(s) do we have in common?

08/01/2026

I used to think if I just kept these things to myself they’d stop being true. they didn’t. so here we are. follow along if you’re in the messy middle too.

07/31/2026

i thought i’d share this because i know there are a lot of us who are in our 30s, or about to enter our 30s, and i wanted to normalize some of the things happening in my own life that i feel like i’ve “failed” at and would honestly love to improve on.

just a reminder: feeling like you’re failing and actually failing are two very different things. i’m not where i want to be, but i am moving. i’m giving myself grace and permission to pivot, to rebuild, and to figure out what a life that actually feels like mine even looks like. and that messy in between, where nothing’s really finished yet, isn’t a failure, but it’s not.

if you’re in your 30s and carrying your own version of this list, this is your reminder that you’re not behind. i genuinely can’t wait to see how good life gets, for both of us.

save this for the day your list feels heavier than usual, and tell me the one thing you feel like you’re “failing” at that you’re actually just in the middle of.