07/24/2026
Today is the second birthday of one of the sweetest little humans in my life—someone I’ve never had the chance to hold in my arms, yet I’ve watched grow through FaceTime and video calls.
Last week, for the first time, he called my name.
I smiled… and I cried.
Out of joy, and out of longing.
Many people may never truly understand what this kind of distance feels like.
If you move from one city to another in the U.S., you can often see your loved ones after just a few hours of flying.
For many immigrants, especially in times like these, distance isn’t measured in miles—it’s measured in years.
Years of missing weddings, birthdays, newborn babies, first words, first steps, and once-in-a-lifetime moments that never come back.
I wish I could have been there today.
To have tea with my best friend, hold her little one, give him the biggest hug, and be there for her during one of the most beautiful—and challenging—chapters of her life.
Happy 2nd Birthday, my sweet boy.
I hope the day comes soon when you’re no longer just a face on my phone screen, and I finally get to hug you in person.
And one more wish…
I hope one day no family, no friendship, and no child has to grow up separated by borders, politics, or war.
People belong with the people they love.
May we all get to live in a world with a little more peace, and a little less distance.
Happy Birthday, little one. 🤍
Reyhan