08/19/2026
Proposing can be scary, y’all. 💍 But I’ve found that most people aren’t worried about their partner saying “yes”. They’re worried about 1,629,103 other things going wrong. If that’s you, keep reading. ☺️ I’m here to ease those fears.
𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙤𝙡𝙚 𝙙𝙖𝙮 𝙞𝙨𝙣’𝙩 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙗𝙚𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙚𝙣𝙙?
People put so much pressure on themselves to plan something incredible, when in reality, no proposal is perfectly smooth. I promise you. It’s not uncommon for the couple to have a small fight that morning, to get stuck on the highway behind a wreck, or to be stressed by something completely unrelated.
If something like this happens, don’t panic. You don’t need to throw your plans out the window. Anything that happened before simply won’t matter.
𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙛 𝙄 𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙄 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙖𝙮?
If this happens, it’s totally ok! Chances are, both of you will black out and hardly remember anything from the 10 minutes before, during, and after your proposal. If you freeze up and forget what you planned to say, know that your partner is hardly listening anyway. 😂 They’re listening for one question.
𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙛 𝙄 𝙙𝙧𝙤𝙥 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜?
You just pick it up. 🙃 Moving on...
𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙛 𝙄 𝙗𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙠 𝙖 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙧 𝙧𝙪𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙄 𝙙𝙞𝙙𝙣’𝙩 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩?�There is no correct knee to kneel on. There’s no correct hand to open the box with. That is just TOO MUCH to add to your list. In my opinion, those things don’t matter, and there’s no need to add unnecessary rules.
𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙛 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙢𝙮 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙣 𝙜𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙬𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙜?
There will never be a 100% guarantee that nothing will go wrong, but if you make a solid plan and work with professionals (venue, photographer, planner, etc.) along the way, you should be just fine.
If you’re still feeling nervous, head to my blog to find a much longer version of this post and read more. Here's the link: https://www.laurengarrisonphotography.com/2022/08/19/commons-proposal-fears-that-you-shouldnt-worry-about-austin-photographer