06/07/2026
Just your friendly local doula reminding you that you can absolutely accomplish what you put your mind to.
For weeks we talked about what the birth could look like, what she wanted and envisioned - and we prepared. There’s always the possibility that things could go a completely different way, of course, and she knew that.
But the thing with birthing unmedicated or without pain meds is that you have to understand that it’s going to be intense, and you let it in anyways. You have to be completely tenacious and kind of unhinged about wanting it. That’s really the only way to get through it. It’s SUPPOSED to feel really big and you have to be willing to walk through fire to get there. You find a way to keep going. At the end of the day, there is no ‘trying’ - you do it or you don’t.
So even when those “what if” and incredibly intense moments came up she held her ground and was determined to birth her way. And she did.
I absolute LOVE when a mother realizes her power and runs with it. Those “holy s**t, I actually did it” feelings are SO GOOD 👏🏼👏🏼 and I’ll never tire of witnessing it.