06/27/2023
Sam here.
It's been a minute and a few new followers so I wanted to say hey, howdy and hello! I'm the Rae in Rae Allen. Allen is a slightly altered version of Eric's middle name.
Just because this is a fun and informative post, I'll share a funny if not somewhat irritating thing about us as a couple that we've learned to navigate through.
I have always been a punctual personal. Like I show up early or scope a place out before hand because my anxiety sets in when I feel like I'm going to not be on time.
Well I married someone who views time as a construct. If he says he's on his way, that's code for I'm still in my pj's watching reels in bed, or I'm at another location and I'm not ready to leave yet.
As you can imagine, it drives me bananas. I would always ask him, "why don't you pay attention or keep time with where you are or where you need to be?"
His response...."I'm relationship based i keep time differently than you."
I used to roll my eyes at that, but then I started to pay attention.
Holy moly when we are with people, he NEVER looks at his phone. He is fully engaged with where he is and who he is with. He has some of the longest and most authentic relationships with people, because he is fully present when he is with them.
I know for a fact that translates to his photography work. He captures the best moments because he's right there living them with our clients.
Don't get me wrong, he STILL makes he late to things and it STILL bothers me to no end, but I've learned to release a little bit and try and be fully present like Eric is.
At least when we are late to meet up with friends everyone knows it's not me!