01/22/2026
10 years ago, on January 21, and I decided to take it to the next level. After meeting on the online dating platform OK Cupid (desktop only at that time—oh, what a time!), things escalated quickly. We fell in love quickly, took a trip to Japan, started a portrait series together, met each others’ families, and we concluded that the only way we could continue to grow together was if we were to commit ourselves to holy matrimony and, ideally, citizenship so we could start our studio together.
I know we’re meant to only discuss 2016 in terms of nostalgia, and yes, I will, but oh, what a time, what a time. To think about so much opportunity, so much possibility—and to stare it in the face, wide-eyed and fresh-faced—is an experience that is quite unique to recount.
But in order to be nostalgic about 2016, I actually need to be nostalgic about 2013, when Wade and I met. I had no clue. I imagine we’d all say that about ourselves 10+ years ago. I wanted to be good. I wanted to be me. I wanted to design, and I wanted to succeed. I wanted love, I wanted care, and I wanted to ensure that whoever I met, they’d tick all these boxes, and some that i’d never even thought of. Personally, before meeting Wade, I felt quite certain that I was destined to crash and burn in relationships, and that all of these aspirations were just wishful thinking that would never be fulfilled. But, I was very wrong.
Wade is someone who manages to exceptionally exceed all of these margins. He’s pensive, considerate, collaborative, caring, and proactive. He makes up for what I am not, and motivates me to be the person I will always strive to be, and teaches me to be someone he can be proud of. 10+ years of this relationship has helped me grow into someone my 2013- and 2016-year-old self would admire.
I couldn’t do this alone. I have the best teammate in the world—for me. I’m so fortunate. And I can’t wait to see what we’ll be like in another 10 years together.
LOVE YOU WADE!