09/16/2026
I need to talk about something I've witnessed more than once lately.
**Consent during childbirth.**
I've watched someone begin a cervical check without clearly asking first.
I've watched procedures start while they're being explained rather than giving Mom an opportunity to ask questions and make a decision.
I've even watched a well-meaning member of a care team reach over and grab a mother's breast to help with baby's first latchâwithout asking before touching her.
As a trauma-informed doula, this matters deeply to me.
Giving birth does not mean giving up ownership of your body.
You are allowed to ask:
đ Why are you recommending this?
đ What are the benefits and risks?
đ What are my alternatives?
đ Does this need to happen right now?
đ Can we have a minute to discuss it?
You can also say:
**âPlease ask before touching me.â**
And you are allowed to say **yes, no, not yet, or I need more information.**
This isn't about being anti-doctor, anti-hospital, or anti-intervention. I work alongside some incredible medical professionals.
It's about remembering that the person giving birth should remain an active participant in their own care.
One of my roles as your doula is not to make decisions *for* you. It's to help make sure you remember that **you have a voice.**
Your body. Your birth. Your voice. đ
I wrote more about informed consent, trauma-informed birth support, and ways you can advocate for yourself during labor on the blog. âŹď¸
https://www.terrianne.net/blog-post/informed-consent-during-childbirth-st-louis-doula
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Learn what informed consent during childbirth means, what questions you can ask, and how a trauma-informed St. Louis doula can support your voice during labor.