04/07/2026
So many times in life, I’ve felt like I missed the mark. Life became too busy and I forgot to register for a camp, or a sport, or photos, or even make dinner!
I’ve scrambled last min for birthday plans for kids and my husband, I’ve sent emails weeks late (or not at all! 🫠). Failed to send out holiday cards, dye Easter egg…. The list can go on. I can, and readily will, list you all my failures. The things I’m distracted by and the house I fail to keep up to the standards of the common sense and decency. 😂
And I did it readily in my 20s and 30s - kept a small voice in my head that always quietly reminded me that I’m not doing all the things I should be doing and therefore, I’m a failure.
And here is the good things about my 40s: I still fail. What a psycho I’d be if I told you I didn’t fail anymore and I did all things well now!
The difference is perspective. It’s always been the difference, right?! With Easter this past weekend, I remembered the great example of perceptive. To the disciples the cross was the end - death - failure. To Christ it was the ultimate victory - life - the ultimate win.
And, so, I’m only telling you this to say with time and age, hopefully you’re able to gain the perspective- that you’re not a failure. That the things you neglect to do are not the total value of your worth.
You are not a soul measured in the weight of all the things you do right. You are a soul measured in the weight of someone else’s sacrifice. 🤍
And there isn’t ever a bad time to book portrait session ;) you’re not late or early - you’ll get there when you do, and it will be perfect.