02/20/2026
I’ve been thinking about adult friendships again — in part because of the response to my first Edit on the subject.
Some of you reached out privately. Some shared your own experiences. Some simply said, “I’ve felt that too.” or sent a 💯. It stayed with me.
In this newest Edit, I reflect on two simple words I recently heard: lurkers and cheerleaders. Not as labels, but as language for something many of us quietly navigate.
It’s a reflection on visibility, boundaries, and choosing where to place your energy with care.
On Adult Friendships: Visibility & Boundaries — now live on Life, Edited.
An honest reflection on adult friendships and boundaries — navigating visibility, emotional energy, and growing with intention.