09/07/2026
“The most respectful thing a person can do is allow another person to be themselves.”
And yep. We were talking about weddings. 🤘
There are approximately 847,392 opinions waiting for you the second you get engaged.
What you should do.
Who you have to invite.
What weddings are supposed to look like.
Which traditions you can’t possibly skip.
What your parent or grandparent wants. What your friends did. What TikTok has decided is mandatory this week.
But somewhere underneath all of that noise are two actual humans trying to plan a day that feels like them.
So here’s your permission slip:
Skip the tradition you don’t connect with.
Wear the thing that makes you feel incredible.
Serve your favorite food.
Invite 40 people. Invite 240.
Get married in a church, a courthouse, a museum, your backyard, or halfway across the world.
Spend money on the things you care about and absolutely zero dollars trying to impress people you don’t.
Your wedding doesn’t need to be a performance of what everyone else thinks a wedding should be.
It gets to be yours.
And maybe one of the kindest things the people who love you can do is trust you enough to let it be. 🫶
Want to more of OUR 800,000 opinions? Check out our podcast, Off The Shot List. Link in bio. 😉
