09/08/2026
Itās a cycle for me. I started this business so I could earn money to send them to daycare so that Iāll be mentally in a better place when they come home.
And then I realized photography is so much more than a job for me and I love the people I meet and work with as much as the art I get to create with them.
But then I feel sad that Iām not able to give 100% to my family so I think about what I can do to make my business more successful so I can spend more time with them.
As I got deeper into the business side, some things started to go awry.
šš¼ I made six figures my second year
š« I made myself a six figure debt I didnāt have before
šš¼ I promised to work during school hours
š« Anxiety prevented me from being fully present
šš¼ I created a beautiful studio that brings me peace
š« My home became a guilt-inducing avalanche of things I didnāt get done
šš¼ Two out of three kids say they want to be a photographer when they grow up
š« The shrill sound of āIām working!!ā when I sneak in work around the house and the kids want to play
šš¼ Iām convinced we are all beautiful just as we are
š« My health hit its lowest lows because I couldnāt fit in self care
Iām not okay with continuing down this path without some serious self-reflection and change. I want to have a business. I want to be a present mom and caring partner. I want to be healthy enough to do everything Iām meant to do, for as long as I can.
So for the next six months, Iām going to focus on just one habit a month. Adding one at a time until it becomes a lifestyle.
If you have similar goals I hope you follow along, letās encourage each other on in navigating the work-life balance as a solopreneur! You are far from alone. šš¼